Archives For Determination
I’m not a fan of resolutions. As I think about the changes I would like to make in the coming year, I feel like a failure for not achieving those changes in the past year….again. And beginning the year feeling like a failure is a sure-fire way for my resolutions to fizzle out…….again.
Rather than making resolutions, I spend some time reflecting on the accomplishments of the past year and I encourage you to do the same. Look through pictures or the calendar to aid in remembering all that was achieved in the past year.
Did you get the oil changed in the car? Did you clean out a drawer or closet this past year or spring clean a certain % of the house? What books did you read? Did you do a bible study, pray daily, or do devotions? Did you learn to take care of your body by staying properly hydrated drinking 8 glasses of water a day? How did your family spend time together? Did you participate in a canned food drive?
By contemplating on accomplishments made, you will realize the successfulness of the past year and be ready to build on those achievements this year.
Review the past year in the following areas and make goals in each area for this year:
How did you grow personally in this past year?
- What books did you read? Recreational reading is also important as we need time to relax and recharge.
- Did you do a bible study/specific devotions/read the bible in a year/etc.?
- Did you pray daily or most days of the week or month?
- Did you enjoy any of your hobbies or do things you like during your free time?
- Did you develop your strengths or weaknesses by taking a class, finding a mentor, seeing a counselor, or reading specific books?
- Did you ever give more than take?
Were any lifestyle changes made?
- Did you drink more water?
- Did you cut back on soda?
- Did you limit sweets to once a week?
- Did you only go out to eat only 3-4 times a month?
- Did you learn to eat more fruits and vegetables?
- Did you decrease your plate portions?
- Did you find a few activities to love and do to stay active?
What investments were made in your family?
- Did you enjoy any family nights?
- Did you plan and do any activities during the Summer or holidays/weekends?
- Did your family go on vacation or spend any weekends away together?
- Did your family do any mission or volunteer work together?
- Did you study the bible as a family or one on one as parent/child?
- Did you tell your family members you love them regularly?
- Did you hug your child often?
How did you give of your time and money?
- Did you volunteer at the local soup kitchen or with another organization?
- Did you go on a mission trip (domestic or international)?
- Did you donate unneeded items to a local mission?
- Did you supply canned goods to local food bank?
- Did you support a missionary/favorite cause/organization/family in need financially?
- Did you make a meal (freezer or fresh) or provide a gift card for friends or family going through a difficult time?
Organize and clean
How did you take care of your house and property?
- Did you clean out or organize any cabinets, drawers, or closets?
- Did you clean out the garage?
- Did you clean up or add anything new to the landscaping?
- Did you clean out or organize toys?
- Did you clean out any files?
- Did you add pictures to any albums?
- Did you do any car maintenance?
Were any positive changes made regarding your finances?
- Did you pay off any credit cards?
- Did you use coupons?
- Did you make a budget?
- Did you take advantage of sales rather than pay full price?
- Did you save any money?
- Did you eat at home rather than eat out?
This is not an all-inclusive list so please feel free to add your own questions or areas.
In order to realize success in these areas this year, white space will need to be created on the calendar.
How do you spend your time daily? Can less be spent on social media or watching TV? Can you travel less for work or cut overtime hours? Is getting up earlier a possibility? A shorter lunch may provide some time to perform a few tasks. Are there any other areas that can be cut back to realize your goals this year? Decide on priorities and fill in the calendar with those first.
Did you do all that is on this list and will you be able to carry out all you set out to do this year? Probably not. And that’s okay. All growth and achievements are something to be celebrated no matter how small.
Even if you’ve never realized your success in the past, I urge you to recognize it now.
I would love to hear what you plan to accomplish this year! Please share in the comments below.
© 2014 Connie Davis Johnson
“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart..” ~ Jeremiah 1:5a
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. ~ Psalm 139:13-14
Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. ~ Psalm 139:16
“God created you with a longing to know you are significant, accepted and secure – and then He met that need through Jesus. You are LOVED with measureless grace and affection.” ~ Renee Swope A Confident Heart
“The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.” ~ Steve Furtick
See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! ~ 1 John 3:1a
“The way we continually talk about our own inabilities is an insult to our Creator.” ~ Oswald Chambers
“Remember He is the artist and you are only the picture. You can’t see it. So quietly submit to be painted. i.e., keep fulfilling all the obvious duties of your station (you really know quite well enough what they are!), asking forgiveness for each failure and then leaving it alone. You are in the right way. Walk – don’t keep on looking at it.” ~ C. S. Lewis
What’s the price of a pet canary? Some loose change, right? And God cares what happens to it even more than you do. He pays even greater attention to you, down to the last detail—even numbering the hairs on your head! So don’t be intimidated by all this bully talk. You’re worth more than a million canaries. ~ Matthew 10:29-31
“Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” ~ Malcolm Forbes, American magazine publisher
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. ~ Jeremiah 29:11
“Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. The fearful are caught as often as the bold.” ~ Helen Keller
The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing. ~ Zephaniah 3:17
“All your efforts to win God’s affection are unnecessary. All your fears of losing his affection are needless.” ~ Max Lucado
For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose. ~ Philippians 2:13
“Every artist was first an amateur!” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. ~ 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. ~ Psalm 34:18
“Don’t let people’s compliments go to your head, and don’t let their criticisms go to your heart. The degree to which you do either of these things is the degree to which you’ll be ruled by what other people think of you.” ~ Lysa TerKeurst
What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? ~ Romans 8:31-32
You may also like:
This post is part of the Whimsical Wednesday Link up
and the Woman to Woman Word Filled Wednesday Link Up
©2013 Connie Davis Johnson