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“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart..” ~ Jeremiah 1:5a
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. ~ Psalm 139:13-14
Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. ~ Psalm 139:16
“God created you with a longing to know you are significant, accepted and secure – and then He met that need through Jesus. You are LOVED with measureless grace and affection.” ~ Renee Swope A Confident Heart
“The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.” ~ Steve Furtick
See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! ~ 1 John 3:1a
“The way we continually talk about our own inabilities is an insult to our Creator.” ~ Oswald Chambers
“Remember He is the artist and you are only the picture. You can’t see it. So quietly submit to be painted. i.e., keep fulfilling all the obvious duties of your station (you really know quite well enough what they are!), asking forgiveness for each failure and then leaving it alone. You are in the right way. Walk – don’t keep on looking at it.” ~ C. S. Lewis
What’s the price of a pet canary? Some loose change, right? And God cares what happens to it even more than you do. He pays even greater attention to you, down to the last detail—even numbering the hairs on your head! So don’t be intimidated by all this bully talk. You’re worth more than a million canaries. ~ Matthew 10:29-31
“Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” ~ Malcolm Forbes, American magazine publisher
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. ~ Jeremiah 29:11
“Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. The fearful are caught as often as the bold.” ~ Helen Keller
The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing. ~ Zephaniah 3:17
“All your efforts to win God’s affection are unnecessary. All your fears of losing his affection are needless.” ~ Max Lucado
For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose. ~ Philippians 2:13
“Every artist was first an amateur!” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. ~ 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. ~ Psalm 34:18
“Don’t let people’s compliments go to your head, and don’t let their criticisms go to your heart. The degree to which you do either of these things is the degree to which you’ll be ruled by what other people think of you.” ~ Lysa TerKeurst
What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? ~ Romans 8:31-32
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©2013 Connie Davis Johnson
Today, I’m guest blogging on Suzie Eller’s website regarding forgiveness. Please click over and check it out. http://tsuzanneeller.com/2013/07/08/forgive-to-live-frenemy-or-real-enemy/#more-6097. Suzie is a Proverbs 31 speaker and author. Her latest book is The Unburdened Heart: Finding the Freedom of Forgiveness.
She talked with my entire family except me. When I tried to engage her in a conversation, she snubbed me and walked away. Confused, I asked a mutual friend why this person would be upset with me. Apparently, this woman was under the impression I insulted her father-in-law and she was quite angry with me.
I called and tried to seek her out to ask about the situation and offer my apology but she would have nothing to do with me. Whenever I see her, she makes it clear she is unwilling to forgive.
Have you ever sought forgiveness only to be rejected?
What are we to do with the hurt and rejection from those who are not interested in forgiving our mistakes or unwilling to talk though misunderstandings?
- Do not allow the hurt to result in more damage. Hurt can sometimes cause us to react negatively and say things we will later regret. Our goal should be to repair the relationship. This cannot be done if we continue to further the damage.
- Once a sincere apology is offered, there is no need to continue apologizing about the situation.
- Continue to be a good friend. Try to engage in conversation if the opportunity arises and if she is willing to speak, genuinely listen. If she is experiencing a crisis, drop off supper or send a card. Avoid coming on too strong by constantly seeking her out. Give her the space and time she needs.
- Pray for a resolution. Pray she will open her heart to you again and the rift will be healed. Pray for your own heart to heal from the hurt of rejection and to be patient in waiting for God to work in the situation.
Unfortunately, it’s been a few years now that my friend has been upset. I’ve accepted she may never forgive me. It saddens me but I’ve come to the realization some relationships just come to an end due to no fault of our own.
I continue to offer friendly greetings upon seeing her and attempt conversation. However, God has healed my heart of the hurt and has helped me move on even as I continue to pray and hope for a reconciliation someday.
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©2013 Connie Davie Johnson